The end of an era.

Today mark the end of an era, sharing my life with some one else for all these years. All tho I have been looking forward  to getting on with my life, it still hurt never the less, but I will get over the teary bit, and move forward. There were the memorable moments, with the kids growing up, that I will always cherish, it was not all bad. Now I have to move forward, and build a life of my own.
I am looking forward to the challenge with confidence, and a life time of experience, and support  from my dear friends, to numerous to even try to mention, invaluable, they are all wonderful and dear to me.  
Today I realized after all these years, that people can be quit different, to what you  have excepted them to be.
I except that I am a very changed person, in numerous ways for the better, and find it difficult to understand the drastic change in attitude, and lack of acceptance, from those closest  to me. 
I do appreciate and feel for my friends who went true similar experience's, but in the end it make us stronger, and more resilient, to deal with our lives in future.

The joys of Christmas..

We all seem to rush around, preparing for the festive season, the shopping centres is a constant push and shove, trying to grab some bargains. It almost slip our mind that there are so many, who will be only onlookers, the under privilege, and those who are defending these senseless wars, started by the war mongers of this world. With the massive push, for freedom of speech, and transparent Government, due to Wikki Leaks, and a big shift already in quite a number of countries, we will soon see a very changed world, for the better. Hope fully we will have a better out come for the under privileged.   
We desperately need it in this country, ea the stolen generation, and the way the family law courts are still operating, tearing families apart.   Then we still stuck with sexual discrimination, that needs to be fixed from the top, if society in general have come to terms with it , then Government  have some catching up to do. 

Shea's Transition.

Ever since a young age I had a feminine side.  My mum use to say, you should have been a girl. Then when I started school, I board with my grand mother and my dads youngest sister, who was living at home, and were taking care of me having a bath at night before going to bed, also said you should have been a girl not a boy.  Well life went on and the years pass uneventfully, had a family and two children, and my TG (transgender) side of course.
Then due to a changing South Africa, because of Apartheid, and instability, we came to Australia. I were invited  too a show, The Lay Girls, that open a whole new world to me. I met and spend a night with one of the members, and leaned a lot  more about the life and journey of a transgender person, and knew then that, it was the path for me.
I needed medical assistance, which prove to be very difficult, since general GP's has no idea, and twenty years later, nothing has changed, very few GP's  is off any help. 
Well I started  oestrogen treatment, that give you breast development, but of cause you will never have the desired effect till you get rid of testosterone. That is what really make us male, or female.
I kept using oestrogen for years. Then I had a bad injury, and blood clot in my leg. Hundreds of blood test is done to control your medication, that did not had the effect it should have. Griffith University were advised and were doing there investigations, found that I had a rare genetic defect, and off cause  your medical history, EA transgenderism. After this blood clot issue were resolved I had a letter from Griffith Uni to meet with a Professor from there medical faculty.  The inter view went well, and there advice was to deal with the transgender issue, rather she than he/ she, cause of the high suicide rate amongst  TG people in later life, not taking care of it.  It was not good for me emotionally, or mentally to live my life as a he/she.
I went to see the Dr who is still treating me now, and she had over thirty five years experience in transgender issues.  Soon enough I were on the right track. Oestrogen was fine, but with out reducing testosterone, you just don't have the change you desire.
Well with in a couple of weeks, life start to change rapidly, You knew within the first week that you are not male any more. All this other changes follow over a period of time, emotionally, physically, and mentally. I became a whole person  not being he/she any more. Your body change to a female shape, every thing about you change, you become a much nicer person, more sensitive, and considerate, and lose the male aggressiveness. You just feel totally different.
Emotionally the change are out of this world, and still remain, still spend a lot of time crying.
Any how I informed my family that I have changed, and are living my life as a female, which  they tried to ignore for years, until  I announced it of course. The results are, I am on my own, except for my youngest daughter, who except me for who I am.    

The end of another week and two week from x mass.  Every week is one closer to me moving too Tasmania, just can't wait, must get away from Brisbane and family, and walk my walk by my self, and be free to live my life. Its been terribly depressing for me here.
Will have  x mass lunch with Connie my youngest daughter, only one in the family who except me.
Has been a very quiet uneventful weekend.

Just feel so sad, a friend in the Netherlands just lost here daughter, 20 year old.  through her self in front of a high speed train. So sad to hear these young people ending their lives.

What are we doing wrong you have to ask??  

Spend another day, chatting to some dear friends, reading all the news.
I got dinner in the oven. Its been one of those days, being so emotional.
Posted some messages to a couple off dear friends.
Had a meaning full conversation with Robyn Whittaker, enjoyed talking to her.